Stuck on What to Write in a Birthday Card? Here’s How to Beat Writer’s Block
You’ve found the perfect card. You’ve got the pen ready. And now… nothing. Total blank.
There's the pressure to say something meaningful without sounding cheesy. But don’t worry, we’ve all been there. At La La Land, we believe a birthday card is a small-but-mighty way to show someone you care, and it should feel special.
So how do you beat writer’s block when writing a birthday card? With a few thoughtful prompts, some playful inspiration, and a touch of creativity. Whether you're writing to a child, partner, grandparent, or colleague, we’ve got tips and examples to help the words flow.
Keep it simple and personal
Start by asking yourself: What do I appreciate about this person?
Don’t worry about being poetic right away. Think of one memory, one quality, or one inside joke. Write it down as if you were saying it out loud. Then build your message from there.
Birthday Wishes for Children
Writer’s block tip: Think of a small milestone or cute moment from the year. You don’t need to write an essay, even a few heartfelt lines will be remembered later on.
Example:
Elissa, you are two!
I’ve loved listening to you go from saying single words to full sentences, and I’ll never forget you singing me your favourite song. Happy Birthday! I can’t wait to see how much you learn, grow and change this year.
Poem to use if you're stuck:
Happy birthday to you,
On this your special day.
We’re so glad to share it with you,
To bring gifts, eat cake and play.
And if you want to get creative:
Bella, it’s your special day,
I’m glad to be your guest.
Enjoy your cake and presents
(I hope you like mine best!)
Birthday Wishes for Parents
Writer’s block tip: Say thank you for something they’ve done, big or small. A birthday is a great excuse to reflect and give gratitude.
Happy Birthday, Mum. Thank you for always being in my corner, for cheering me on, and for knowing when I need tea and a chat. I hope you’re spoiled today, you deserve it.
Too shy to get mushy? Let a poem help you out:
I’m wishing you another year
Of laughter, joy and fun.
And when your birthday’s done,
I hope you know deep in your heart,
How much you mean to me.
Birthday Wishes for a Friend
Writer’s block tip: Think about what makes your friendship special. Have you laughed until you cried? Survived bad jobs together? Travelled? Start there.
Feeling stuck? Try a quote:
- “Friends are the family you choose.”
- “You’ll always be my friend… you know too much.”
- “A good friend bails you out of jail. A great friend is in the cell saying, ‘That was wild.’”
Use humour, sentimentality, or both. As long as it’s you, it’s perfect.
Birthday Wishes for Your Partner
Writer’s block tip: Keep it honest. You don’t need grand poetry (unless you want to!). A line or two about what you love or admire in them is more than enough.
I still get butterflies when I hear your keys in the door. You’re my favourite part of every day, and I wouldn’t have our lives any other way.
Happy Birthday to the person who feels like home,
All my love,
xxx
Even better? Write your own version. It doesn’t have to rhyme, just speak from the heart.
Birthday Wishes for Grandparents
Writer’s block tip: Use a mix of warmth and wit. You can be sentimental or gently tease them about their age (if your relationship allows!).
Need help? Here’s a sweet and simple verse:
Hope your day just sparkles,
With happiness all day through,
You deserve a brilliant day
That’s especially made for you!
Or go with a quote:
- “You don’t get older, you get better.” – Shirley Bassey
- “To me, old age is ten years older than I am.” – Bernard Baruch
- “You know you’re getting old when the candles cost more than the cake.” – Bob Hope
Always finish with a personal message, something that lets them know that you see them and appreciate who they are.
Birthday Wishes for a Colleague
Writer’s block tip: Balance professionalism with warmth. Keep it friendly and kind. If you're close, feel free to be cheeky, but skip the sarcasm if it’s your boss!
Simple go-to message:
Hope your birthday is filled with laughter, good cake, and zero emails.
Or try a poem:
From morning till night,
May your birthday be bright,
And nicer than ever before.
Birthday Wishes for a Milestone
Writer’s block tip: Lean into the occasion. Whether it’s 21, 40 or 70, acknowledge the milestone with humour or heartfelt reflection.
Classic quotes that break the ice:
- “The secret to staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age.” – Lucille Ball
- “Middle age is when you’re warned to slow down by a doctor instead of a policeman.”
- “To me, old age is always ten years older than I am.” – Bernard Baruch
- Finish it off with something sincere — even if it’s just “So lucky to celebrate you.”
Still stuck? Let the card do the talking
At La La Land, our cards are illustrated with love, humour, and heart by Australian artists. From quirky to sentimental, we’ve got the perfect card to inspire your words, or speak for you.
